FROM time to time, I get letters from you readers that are so interesting that I feel I ought to share them with the rest of you.  A few days back, a letter simply signed “Iyabode” popped up on my e-mail and I couldn’t help chuckling to myself as I read it.  She wrote: “Dear […]

By Yetunde Arebi Hi, Today, we conclude our expose with our respondents. Feel free to chip in your views on this or any other issue with us via the addresses above. Bisi, (61), retired Teacher says education and change in lifestyle are a major factor: The husbands were the heads of their homes and bringing […]

The fact is my mum and my fiancée can’t stand the sight of each other. My mum is the domineering type and my woman would not allow her to stick her nose into how she runs the home

I’m now 36 and happily married with four lovely children. My ex also has a wife and a family…

In time past, divorce was regarded as a shameful thing by many people, more so in our clime. Marriage was assumed to be a sacred institution where once a woman steps into it, is not expected to look back again.

By Yetunde Areb Continued from last edition Hi, Okay, let’s wrap up this discussion today! Yet, for all the troubles we subject ourselves to in the search for aphrodisiacs and sexual pleasures, scientists insist that aphrodisiacs are more of myths created by the mind and body.  They say aphrodisiacs have very little or no scientific […]

The Methodist Church Nigeria (MCN) on Friday passed a vote of no confidence on its British counterpart, over the latter’s approval of same-sex marriage. The Nigeria variant of the church said this in a statement by its Director, Media and Public Relations, Rev. Oladapo Daramola, in Lagos. Daramola said that the Church expressed its displeasure […]

Nobody would have believed that food prices, would rise to the ridiculous level they now are.  I’ve observed consumers stare longingly at market stalls and hungrily watch food items they can no longer cart home. Some mothers don’t even bother to go to the markets. They simply send their offspring with a list of what […]

Never judge a book by its cover, they say. And so it was with the mummy as we fondly call her and her husband. It was no secret that mummy preferred the company of neighbours and spent more time in her little shop located within the compound than she did with her ailing husband who […]

Dear Bunmi, My boyfriend is great in many ways, and I love him to bits. The problem is he never makes me feel special. I know there are more things in a relationship than mushy cards and presents, but I need some romance in my life. In the two years, we’ve been together, he’s never […]

Dear Bunmi, I’ve been having an affair with one of my husband’s good friends for the past six months, and I think I’m in love with him. He’s also married and we’re all good family friends. I’m really confused about the relationship, as he carries on as if nothing is between us when we’re with […]

A young lady who is being threatened by the actions of her brother has cried for help. According to the lady who pleaded anonymity,  the brother has been attempting to rape her and always masturbating before her while she is asleep. Rape we know is forbidden in every society, but what do we say to […]

What do you do when you discover that your girlfriend is cheating on you? Do you end the relationship or patiently wait for the right time to take your pound of flesh. My young friend, Dele did just that to his young lover of many years recently. His story is quite interesting, I must confess. 

She finally packed out of her matrimonial home. Remember the story about the couple whose young children were busted for practicing incest and I promised to give you the full gist at the right time? Well, the coast is clear now.

Zack is a 39-year-old I freak who runs a very high-tech cybercafe.  He also has this reputation of being a chronic womanizer – a fact he readily agrees to, blaming his sexual addiction on his father, he explains