Relationships

When revenge could be therapeutic!

When revenge could be therapeutic!

By Bunmi Sofola HELL might have no furry like a woman scorned, but some have found ways of making the pain more bearable by seeking revenge.  When Rele moved in with her boyfriend of 18 months, she was ecstatic.  But, I warned that living together seldom lead to marriage.  That where it did, the marriage […]
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I’m dating a married woman

I’m dating a married woman

I’m a young man in the University and very good-looking. Eight months ago, I started dating a woman I met in the same University but she is married to an abusive husband.

I lost my man because I slept with 43 men

I lost my man because I slept with 43 men

I’m in deep shit over relationships. I’m a 35-year-old woman and met a very handsome 43-year-old man. We’ve been dating for five months now and still haven’t slept together.

Has his sex life died?

Has his sex life died?

My husband is in his mid 50s and I am 48. It’s over three years since we made love and I’ve suggested that he sees a specialist but he won’t, he shrugs that the specialist will only say that at our age, that type of thing stops.

I know that sex is not the element of relationship but it is an important part. I find myself being flippant and sarcastic with him and this leads to arguments. My husband said that if sex meant that much to me, I should have an affair if I could find someone and if I could be discreet about it. Well, maybe I should! I love my husband but I refuse to live a celibate life for the rest of my years.

Seperated from my wife, I find it difficult talking to girls

Seperated from my wife, I find it difficult talking to girls

I haven’t really been able to talk to any girl since my seperation from my ex-wife 6 months ago. We haven’t really signed any divorce papers, so I feel very obligated to stay faithful to her even though our relationship as we know it is over and done wit

We fight over money all the time

We fight over money all the time

How do I get my live- in boyfriend to take care of his part of the monthly bills without sounding like I’m more worried about money than the relationship? He gives me money for some stuff, sometimes, but I have ended up taking care of most of the monthly expenses, and I’m starting to feel resentful.

Help, my boyfriend is too suspicious

Help, my boyfriend is too suspicious

I have been dating a guy for over two years. Everything is fine except that my boyfriend is very possessive, suspicious and jealous. I have never cheated on him and have no cause to do so. I love him and hold him in high regards but his jealousy and suspicion is killing me. He doesn’t want me to have friends or mix up with other people.

He’s too suspicious

He’s too suspicious

I have been dating a guy for over two years. Everything is fine except that my boyfriend is very possessive, suspicious and jealous. I have never cheated on him and have no cause to do so. I love him and hold him in high regards but his jealousy and suspicion is killing me. He doesn’t want me to have friends or mix up with other people.

Sex is okay with me but nothing serious

Sex is okay with me but nothing serious

Some people love to pair off like lovebirds while others like to fly solo. There’s nothing wrong with savouring your independence, as long as you are honest with yourself and your partners about what you want and don’t want out of each connection, sexually and otherwise.

I don’t have orgasm during intercourse

I don’t have orgasm during intercourse

Your ability to have an orgasm through oral sex may be able to teach you a big lesson. Perhaps your partner could incorporate oral sex into your intercourse routine. A woman’s sexual pleasure mostly comes from stimulation to the clitoris which is highly sensitive and full of nerve endings. In fact, there are as many nerve endings in the tip of the clitoris as there are in a male organ!

I feel guilty about cheating on him

I feel guilty about cheating on him

My guy and I have been together for the past 10 years. We have been living together but we are not married and my family is kicking. I have always felt like we had a pretty good relationship and although I am away for work quite often, I have never felt tempted to stray.But last year, I met another guy at a conference and we clicked well and ended up talking for hours. However, one thing led to another and things happened that I never intended to happen. I’s not really a big deal but I’m actually dying inside over the guilt I have now.