One of the great mysteries of mankind may have been solved. Scientists from King’s College in London measured 15,000 penises in 16 countries

Dear Bunmi, so close that her brother and my first daughter are currently going steady

By Bunmi Sofola IT stands to reason that with the spate of divorce the society now witnesses and the number of unwanted pregnancies, single parenthood has come to stay.  The sad picture is that, unlike in the old days when single parents were mostly widows who couldn’t be considered young, a lot of single parents today, […]

By Bunmi Sofola What kind of a person do you imagine when you think of a conscientious, hardworking conformist?  A proud brother or sister who shoulders responsibilities with or without encouragement?  What if you were to be asked which member of your family is the most extroverted or the naughtiest?  Do you think of your younger […]

Dear Bunmi, to teach him a lesson, I moved out for a few days. On the day I left, my husband moved another woman into our matrimonial home

By Bunmi Sofola You have been used and dumped by your partner and you’ve hurt terribly.  Now you consider your next line of action.  Should you walk away with your head held high or let your emotions get the best of you by plotting revenge?  After almost three years of living with her partner, Roy, Juyin […]

By Bunmi Sofola If your partner is a chronic alcoholic, most experts advise you to show him the door.  That only when he has reached rock bottom will he be ready to overcome his addiction to alcohol.  But what happens if that alcoholic is your father – or your mum as it was the case with […]

By Bunmi Sofola THE rainy season is fast upon us.  A few of us might skip through the season; but most of us will succumb, enduring between two and five bouts of sniffing and sneezing each year – each lasting an average of nine days.  Experts believe we spend around five years of our lives sneezing, […]

By Bunmi Sofola With many of our men complaining of different types of ‘accidents’ in the bedroom, it is no surprise that the help of what is now termed a ‘sexual surrogate’ could come in handy.  The average ‘sexual surrogate’ is not a prostitute but a trained psychotherapist who acts as a surrogate for men suffering […]

Sadly, a lot of men have had the power rug pulled from under their feet, no thanks to the current economic crunch that’s robbed them of a chunk of their incomes.